There’s always a way through
Ben BraceVeritas vos liberabit
ninesquaredMen being free to be honest and real but only when they want to…
Mikealcohol free with my girlfriend n kids in my own home not having 2 move away from them.
jamesfind something that makes you happy and do it twice
Stowiebe excellent to everybody
damianReach out to others whenever you can and show them they’re not alone.
OkradonWe are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that Death will tremble to take us.
-Charles Bukowski
conormac
back with my kids and gf
Paul
talk….and lots of it!
indya42To love something you do, do something you love.
adamkeyworthBe yourself. And as long as you are happy, and you are feeling good about yourself, nothing else matters. You are perfect just the way you are
FB_648549672There is always a way !
flangeto have a man a have anal sex in my life now …………
dumbo126Surround yourself with people who care, and take care of yourself
Mark BuckleyIn remembrance of Daniel
RubyBe yourself and don\’t let anyone get in the way of what or who you want to be.
themorticiansdaughterWe all need hope.
malcolmmckenzie
Family, friends and good music. If you can help someone, make their life better, then it’s your duty to, because if you don’t, who will?
fuzzcaminskiYou are impeded on your route to happiness and true success mainly by fear of what others may think.
WoodesHold on, If you feel like letting go!
rD10To try to live happily.
geenome
Our differences make us stronger.
starsarebloodif in a doubt, ask.
tomassMy guiding principal for a happy life is to accept what you are and never stop trying to change to make yourself the best version of yourself.
Heatherydoune
Be persistent,
very persistent.
Be very persistent.
Turistamy guding prinicple is that no matter what happens in life there is always someone there for you
weightmans06“Happy” is not a destination its a mood so take things day by day and deal with the future when it arrives
penguin14Take a little, give a lot, put something back. Give time to talk to a friend
sheenaghdavisRemember the good times.
pebbles657create your own story because the one provided you is not big enough for you
arcas
Doing just fine.
CorinneIt’s not my own words but this has been my mantra: the state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind
grouchoAll is Well. You are loved.
Gina DVWhy oh why oh why not?
sidtheferret
“Be the person you want to see in the world, but, dont look at it to hard”. Ghandi said that, the first bit, I added the not to hard bit.
SambinoI like to be professional and look after people well.
pianoforteTake joy in the little things, but more than anything just get out there.
Richardb21We need better help for young men and appropriate training of GPs, hospitals and employers to recognise properly that depression is an illness.
JRHdont take yourself too seriously, never regret anything that made you smile, always think tomorrow is another day :)
MissingPieceMake everything of everyday
JoshWe are human and should be treated well,the word fails when this is not done
dexter69Dont let the bastards grind you down!
JamesMcGregorDon’t let it get to you.
red_stag
What determines our life is not what happens to us but what we do with what happens.
flpHonesty, discipline, perseverance, kindness, love.
FranceI think the effects of television, the internet and the media have taken a devastating toll on society.
MrNickJust talk to people, nothing’s as bad as you think, don’t suffer in silence.
GreenwichSiHelp other’s with the same problems.
COSEIN2011
Enjoy who you are, and what you have achieved in life. Look around you and appreicate what you have. Be who you want to be.
shaggyit’s easy to laugh, it’s easy to hate. it takes guts to be gentle and kind
hussein_uraibyEmbrace how lucky we are to be living. Life is an incredible gift that needs not to go to waste.
ChrisChadwickRespect yourself and respect others
TheCCYP
to stop people being pressured into doing drugs
Jay
yesterday is history
tomorrow is mystery
thats why its called the present
srobertsonlaughter and my family are the guiding lights in my life
treadsIt is okay not to cope…it is okay to cry…it is okay to accept help..it is okay..as tomorrow we can make a better day
gemstone101
A man of action forced into a state of thought is unhappy until he can get out of it.
SamsonI have something worthwhile to say too!!!
P4paulI think the key is to be entirely comfortable and assured with yourself.
arty_guy92
What ever will be will be.
Juberto
Be true to yourself, take comfort in friends and family and never let those around you be alone.
TBlake
Never keep a problem hidden, always confide in someone you trust. More importantly – Be true to yourself.
redgriffDo what you want so long as it does not hurt anyone else , life is here to be lived,
triffiksbe true to yourself. find others on your wavelength. pursue your favourite creative outlets. eat well and move your body :)
Tai09This website is awesome. I constantly come across something new & different right here. Thank you for that data.
ontiellsheltI don’t know
lost inside my mindtreat others as you wish to be treated
phil.goldblattNever forget how beautiful you are.
riskybusinessBelieve in yourself. You worth it, you’re allowed to live, love and be loved.
Veeee
Shed expectation in favour of living honestly, without fear. Take what you love & embrace it. Give & accept the love of those around you. Be.
michael_mandBe yourself – you are allowed.
Philip LevineTo help reduce or prevent suicide in young people
Angel of the Realm
Dont bottle up your feelings it will only end up in more pain
dreamingdevil
Life is a door. You have to open it to see what can happen.
OldSkoolGent
Depression is not a sign of weakness but a sign that you have been strong for too long.
OliverclewsGood and Loving relationships with friends and family.
RichardSelf sacrifice is the most spiritually rewarding act of all.
happyhigginsEvery experience has value. Take from it what strengthens you and feeds you wisdom. Share this wisdom and experience with others.
LaurenceThe key to a happy life is to be in charge of your own destiny, take control of your life, set goals and work out a plan to achieve them.
JamesDA fool judges others.
Yossis32stay calm, be true to yourself at all costs, listen to transcendental music
Peter
Don’t let the bastards grind you down
letthepastgoThe 100 year view – imagine your problems viewed from 100 years in the future.
SionnynDefeat your enemies with success.
One step at a time, one foot in front of the other, you will get through this one way or another.
holly_amy
be true to yourself and never lose sight of who you are.
StewartDon’t give in to the temptation to think in black and white. And remember that help IS out there.
josie-joDon’t forget the songs that made you cry and the songs that saved your life.
Girl_Afraid
“Only connect”
garethA life intact is a life worth living, don’t let anyone or anything convince you otherwise.
willtheblade123to keep help networks like this going cos without it where is the love for humanity
prettypollyTake your time, speak your mind and always dream so free. Aim high and wide and you will find you’ll always be the man you want to be.
busroy26Look, live, forgive, forget, appreciate, remember, value.
jpw208when the black dog looks at you, stare him down – however scary he may be you are always his master
freyamumTo be kind to yourself, to learn to love yourself for who you are, to look after your mind and body and to love and protect those closest to you
TcbcrewsEvery man should push themselves to be better, but by their own measurements.
TraversLife is HARD my mother went to prison for a full 7 years, My father is an alcoholic My sister a Hard Druggie… .this is killing me plz help!
stevedavid
Be happy with who you are and don’t let bastards put you down!
DeanAS
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind
CrossflowHowever you define, whether you are out or still working it out, transitioning or just a supportive friend, our society has something for you.
LHU LGBT OfficerI want to help make a difference!
Gazdingerthe most irrelevant problem to you, is the most relevant for someone else
ingham2kThink positive, stay active and connect with people. Believe in yourself and others
sarah_janecYou’re more than good enough
annabanana
Every man should have the right to a happy and healthy life with support to help us through the tough times.
Flameboy84
Go places and follow your dreams :)
dahilarose
LIVE TO RIDE RIDE TO LIVE
You dont no what you got till its gone!
Dont Worry be Happy
JenMen must speak up to redefine our place in society. If unchallenged, prejudices will continue to prevail and provoke needless suffering.
SteveJack
don’t be afraid to talk
AlanShare my story and listen and embrace the stories told to me.
TilleyTalk to a friend to ease the PAIN
Lee BMore youth development work in and outside of schools and colleges
annette
all you really need is music, keep your heart beating to the rhythm of the drums
Millie
Look after number one. Then you can be there for others.
RICHARDExist in your fullest colours.
LibbyEllen
Laugh into the dark.
Tallulahto treat people the same way you would like to be treated
alphaThis too shall pass.
lindsaycleary123
you can turn off the sun but im still gunna shine
PedroAspire to a lower level of harm.
flutterbyIts never too late to be what you might have been – Noel Gallagher
Roostar
It’s better to light a candle than to curse the darkness
MadrugadaEternammmmm make me happy
mmmmBigQuirk
People need people.
steviestudywith the right intervention suicide is preventable; help support the intervention
Verity216Prevent mental health discrimination by education
lawtcrav
Passing on a helping hand.
dazz65Not having a democracy, being made to feel bad for expressing yourself, being spoken down to, feeling dead inside…
Iain
You’re not alone, none of us are. There is always some-one who will listen, to everything you need to say. And if you think you’ve got nobody –well, you’ve got me.
IcarusBeing yourself listen to your heart
mossie29Live each day as if it is your last, if there’s anything that you are thinking of doing do it.
marcia65Compassion is key
narfergusonIf life is a game, love is the trophy.
Carplarrr.
Love is love, and you are not alone.
emmahebron
live to your potential, and help others reach there potential with you.
3ryboenjoy what you have, not what you need.
Willb
Let’s move on cause it’s time to groove on. Hear the drummer get wicked.
Andy Error
It’s how you respond that matters, talking and asking for help is as important and valid a response as sorting something by yourself.
nicebloke1977I don’t live and don’t want anyone else to live miserably
muinteoirgoleor
Look after yourself, allow others look after you when you are in trouble and always BELIEVE you are needed!
CSheridanHonesty, discipline, focus, perseverance, kindness, love.
FrancisNever stop learning. Do. Improve. Try again. Improve. Try again. Improve. Stay hungry.
artistephilo
creativity
PatrickIt gets better
ianrgoulding
To try and live each day as it comes, not dwell on negatives and always look for the positives in any situation. Its There!
scottyWe can’t control what happens or what others do, we can only control how we respond.
RexIs ok to SHARE how you FEEL….Hugs xxxx
angel2011
When surrounded by people that love you – can you survive anything.
trippseChampion the silver lining
CoralIf the female suicide rate was even half that men, it would not be tolerated – The State wont help so we must help outselves.
Panther100Happy people, make others happy. (:
AshleyLive, laugh , love. You have to live to laugh
you have to laugh to love. So LIVE and the rest will follow.
forfrancoBelieve in JESUS! He is the ONLY way:) Jesus says: ‘Iam the way and the truth and the life.’ – John 14:6 (NIV)
calloydThere is always someone worse off – who may need your help so stand and be counted – talk is good and so easy once you get started.
Walking-tall
every day at a time for my wife and son
bakesIt’s my life, I’m living it!
i_am_alexI want to be found by me.
Iacobus
Try and find meaning in someone or something.
DanielI dont’ know
lost in my mind
Depression is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign someone has been trying to be too strong for too long.
AnthonySomeone kill me now!
Marcy
Softness always beats violence, silence is the mother of creativity…
Andres ProanioNot to dwell on missed opportunities but to recognise they weren’t for me and focus on the future.
Bhavisha
I used to know, but now I don’t.
umpstalumpstaPower to the skilled and knowledgeable.
thomas_grayHistory’s greatest minds have considered truth and happiness and still aren’t all that sure about it. When your not sure your not alone.
JMurrayGays are the future
Iloveguyssomuch
Feel better each day and have as much fun as you can all day, everyday. Life is a dream, long live the party.
max_higgs
Keeping the body in good shape/Socialising often/Following your passions/Do it for you
domonhiscomputerto find purpose and not to suffer alone
samwjtLife is a very complicated game! If it all goes wrong try try again. Life is deffinatly a rollercoaster!!
hardy1
We are all uniquely special in our own ways and deserve to be happy and loved in life.
Hannah ProsserFocus on making sure you look after number one – yourself – before worrying about others.
SophieTo lean on people when you need to and let them lean on you back.
ECollins”You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.” Winston Churchill….
Janet
remember that everything passes over us, and will not last forever. Try to express yourself, and take notice of the love, you’re not alone!
Nadia YoussefPut one foot in front of the other and have faith that tomorrow will be a better day.
blackie50Keep your Family and Fri ends close.
andy1232001No ideology, just be kind
Nwestman7Let go of it
tonydeadgoodevents
Being a man means being able to talk about being a man.
dantaylorlive for the moment. (i’ll work on this a bit more).
desimonI’m still working this one out
conanimaI know when I am happy because its when I am not sad.
Emma
Mental health is as unique to the individual as their DNA.
disintegralToday is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present.
tamkabBe loud, be proud, be heard
Bilbo1968
Everyone has a talent & should be allowed to let it shine. It’s the people who are different in this world that make the biggest difference.
Helen Wallace-Iles
Simple pleasures!
daidevil
Acceptance, patience, hope. Sleeping when tired.
BarryLove the life you live.
Danni138Communicate yourself well.
freeain
Acceptance and understanding, the ablility to forgive and let yourself be loved. But above all, you must not worry.
OutlawtotheendIt’s better to fail then to simply not try.
PFCThose who mind don’t matter, those who matter don’t mind
curlybobMaking people smile.
FB_339500406share the love ,it takes courage to seek help and should be applauded.
JAMESKBRADMAN@GMAIL.COMFear nothing. You are superhuman.
smilemoreMalTalking is the number one solution to bullying.
lukemarksmithMen need a support network too!
luckytwentyseven
Love yourself, surround yourself with wonderful people and never give up. Help is always there, and you should never be ashamed to ask for it.
IrregularJoeKeep Calm and Carry On
Keep CalmNothing is constant; all is flux
laurencewhto be happy with ones own life and ambition. to know that by living you are making a difference; be it to a friend, community or nation.
corriganphilip
Dropping the bravado, not taking it on the chin… speaking up.
MCF
We’re all lying in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars
stewieLaughter is the answer
duff_541for every impossible or can’t theres a possible and a can !!!!!
AVBlfcIf I do something now, maybe I can change the wrong I have done
ciasthebizYou need to find one constant thing in life that will always be there to over-ride any unhappy feelings.
AndyFurnyMeeting new people, not knowing, how they might guide you. I’ve been very fortunate to have a variety of mentors and I owe each day to them.
GreyDon’t worry about what’s happened, it’s happened. Don’t worry about what will happen, just focus on what is happening NOW
RMN98Success in life is getting back up one more time after you fall down…
fiona_albaKeep a happiness barometer and check it regularly, if it dips bring it back up.
JasonNothing is unfixable, it might seem hard but share problems with family or friends, they would never want anything bad to happen to you
jadeybearOnce you have accepted yourself, then it becomes easier to love and feel less scared of expressing your emotions and worries.
kimlenghills
To be more open.
smorroccoWWRD: What Would Ron Burgundy Do?
Darren_James
Mutual respect is mandatory!
elemental.tmHelp others when you can.
fletcherbrianJust stay true to yourself, one day the pieces will come together again!
FunkyMonkeyHappiness and balance through out your life
harrywbi\’m here for a good time not a long time!
MattManThere are people who love you more than you\’ll ever know.
alice-tbLoving those around you and being loved back…
SmaugDon’t let people tell you what to be…
ThecriesandliesaredoneAlways make sure you are doing something you are proud of.
cami_amYou don’t have to be anyone or anything, just being yourself is fine.
Pavannot posted at this time
JakeAzad2343One size does not fit all, so lets find the right size!!
mazOpen , honest dialogue with yourself first.
hatterChange is possible
OCD Treatment Clinic UKYou will get there.
OctaveMental illness is cultural illness: no-one is to blame but it is a failure of society as a whole to nurture its most sensitive members.
MatthewNever take life too seriously, no one gets out alive in the end anyway
milesgoesfarWhat is the loving thing to do?
donal“Like a man is a mountainside, greatness awaits for those who try. None can teach you it’s all inside, just climb.”
Son of a Blizzard- Appreciate the little things
- Hold on to what you love
- Believe you can and will get better
dr gearyDon’t let people get you down, stay happy, stay safe.
iRawwwNConnection with and caring for others, doing what you love, thinking about what matters. Having a laugh.
Trace333Happiness is being able to share your innermost demons with the ones closest to you in order to fight them.
lpoveyHelp, im probably going to kill myself soon
LiamHappiness touches heart like art :)
Hannahf1Don\’t worry about whether you meet other people’s standards of “happiness” and enjoy the tiniest things.
thelastnormanKnow that nothing, even painful feelings, last very long. Practice patience and gratitude.
pearjooce
Rise early, meditate, exercise, eat healthily, everything in moderation, keep it in the day & treat everybody how you wish to be treated.
Lox
Life is too short to be miserable so just know that things will always get better!
lynnje i love gays!!!!
joshlovescockDon’t let the story of now write itself.
Gogglesbill hicks – its just a ride
jodwilx
Listen to music all the time, and express yourself, by whatever means. Don’t be closed up, make friends every day.
FB_646738584To be at peace with oneself.
philhughesI think i like men
alepineTime to Act ourselves out of the silence.
TimCr0wther
From the mind of self-realisation and enquiry, comes the feeling of hopelessness, branching out from self loathing to self-destruction.
PeteTo stop people suffering in silence
MilesI hold it to be the inalienable right of anybody to go to hell in his own way.
Matt Gee
Remember you are never alone, there is always someone to help you. Bridges are never fully burned however badly you think they are.
richardlloydJust hold your ground, take it as is and the rest will come to you.
linnyyLife and being happy is the realisation that no-one is high and happy 24-7. Feeling the middle ground is acceptable.
bengalijunkieeverything happens for a reason !
bethanymaiGood relationships with family and friends
lee0120Buddhism and friends
LauraCristina_x
I know this is kinda cheating but think it’s a pretty good explanation…
http://www.songmeanings.net/songs/view/3530822107858721660/
vostokoflovelive your life be free!
lovelyshaun22Look forward and enjoy every minute you can, dwelling on what you can’t change is useless.
MKMXMWorrying is irrational. If you can do something about it then why worry? If you cannot do something about it then why worry?
Adam DobrikTo put myself first because my happiness will have a knock-on effect.
Voicebox
Live, laugh , love. You have to live to laugh
you have to laugh to love. So LIVE and the rest will follow.
forfranco85I’ve been there!
Don BryantToo make sure you talk too friends/family around you the first glimpse of any dark thoughts because things only get worse.
AustinAlways maintain positivity, perspective and gratitute for what you have, or as I call it ‘Pospertude”
usuallyjustatshirt
Live everyday like it’s your last.
paulburns145If your feeling down, don’t struggle with it, there is always someone there who can help.
margueriteturpieThere is always someone there for you
FB_100000366827283You only have one life. Live it.
cazlazWork hard, treat others well, and things will work out.
Eric
Stay busy, be constructive, be creative.
LeoE + R = O the EVENT and how you choose to RESPOND to it, will absolutely determine your OUTCOME.
Whitbourn82If you can reach out and talk when talking seems like the hardest thing in the world. Than you will be a man my son.
james1Take responsibility, be in control, find your reason for being, the meaning in your life, we all belong
laura.gallagher
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion, if you want to be happy, practice compassion
loureid81You Are good, you have always been good, you were only ever made to feel bad. But infact you are good. We now know that our minds may be trying to make sense of what happened to us and this is a natural response but we are infact good and have always been!
chrisadamsuk…It’s all in your head…
funhousegreg
Take past experiences, positive or negative, and learn from them to build improve the future.
mandygoodheartNo matter how long or dark the night is, there will always be a sun rise
RhidaviesLook your fears straight in the eye and come out stronger.
andfo82always take stock of what you’ve got going for you
pwhipThere is a light at the end of the tunnel, just keep going and you’ll get to switch it on.
JamesBe true to yourself
TwinklePertMy ability to fight with my own negative thoughts was my biggest success. And I’m proud of it.
tevtcopExtreme drobing is the only way!!!!OMG!
layla.ayazSomeone else can set me free
Sadgit1
Happiness is not insant, it’s a gradual movement through continuous improvement. Every action has a ripple effect.
VeeSpend most of your days doing something you love. Dont waste time trying to fit in or worrying about what others think. Follow your dreams
annwaeIT’S SO EASY TO LAUGH, IT’S SO EASY TO HATE . ITR TAKES GUT’S TO BE GENTLE AND KIND.
BERGAN1Inspiration is a power tool and I want to inspire and be inspired every day.. From every day people!
kevin lacle