You may know Shirley Ballas as BBC 1’s Strictly Come Dancing head judge but she also has another story to tell, after the tragic loss of her brother to suicide in 2003. We caught up with her to find out about her memories of her brother, how it inspires her to help others and how she’ll use her role as CALM ambassador to help people to live a life less miserable.
Shirley Ballas knows first hand that people don’t always talk when they’re finding things hard. In 2003 she lost her brother David, who took his own life after dealing with depression. Unaware that he’d been suffering, Shirley has since been fuelled to encourage people to stop putting on a ‘brave face’ and talk to someone they trust, be it a friend, family member or a charity like CALM.
Keen for people to realise that anyone can find things difficult, she’s teamed up with us to highlight the importance of opening up and wants to show that there’s more to her own life than the star-studded and sequinned show Strictly Come Dancing:
“When I got asked to be a CALM ambassador, I was really quite ecstatic. When my brother passed away he had a lot of challenges with his mental wellbeing and Strictly has given me a platform where I can talk about it a lot more. I feel like this is in memory of my brother and I’m excited to get people to engage and talk about how they’re feeling, but also to learn tools that can help people.